tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post1621106639052973341..comments2023-10-31T19:57:34.988+08:00Comments on As Zewt As It Gets: A trap on both sideszewthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-36586235079427100052007-04-24T20:16:00.000+08:002007-04-24T20:16:00.000+08:00aSstHa - i dunno how to say this but someone actua...<B>aSstHa</B> - i dunno how to say this but someone actually recommended this book to me a few hours ago... it's about a guy who took his own life and met his mom in heaven or something. cant be a true story right?<BR/><BR/>let the juice overflow... i always appreciate intellectual sharing from the heart.zewthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-66473384348266524632007-04-24T10:11:00.000+08:002007-04-24T10:11:00.000+08:00actually... i tink we sometimes take ppl for grant...actually... i tink we sometimes take ppl for granted... i highly recommend anonymous to read Micth Albom's - For One More Day... something similiar to relate to.<BR/><BR/>it's a true story of one guy's accoung of life on how he favour his father to his mother even AFTER the father left the family, he blamed his mother thus, never really bonded with her until her death (it was already too late den~aSstHa~https://www.blogger.com/profile/10003150355591546967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-20566083499719835742007-04-19T21:18:00.000+08:002007-04-19T21:18:00.000+08:00grace - ok, i believe you :P ... until proven guil...<B>grace</B> - ok, i believe you :P ... until proven guilty... <BR/><BR/><B>SuLee</B> - i have been posting so many dishes i cook and only that one made you drool? sigh....<BR/><BR/>slicing of hands... metaphorically speaking la...<BR/><BR/><B>freelunch2020</B> - i am glad... i know it's hard sometimes, but i am sure one day... we will regret if we dont.<BR/><BR/><B>aput</B> - dont quite get yourzewthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-91592164602805772062007-04-19T11:31:00.000+08:002007-04-19T11:31:00.000+08:00are you trying to make people guilty for not carin...are you trying to make people guilty for not caring about those around them...?<BR/><BR/>sarcastic question.<BR/><BR/>in any relationship, there can never be balance because we're talking about two separate people with 2 different lines of thought. One might argue that their duty to cook dinner is equivalent to the other's duty to do the housework, while the other sees cooking as one activity andAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-33277562907917663722007-04-18T21:17:00.000+08:002007-04-18T21:17:00.000+08:00true...your post on your mom really made me more a...true...your post on your mom really made me more appreciative of ppl around me like my family n friends...:DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-65873611810812030172007-04-18T20:28:00.000+08:002007-04-18T20:28:00.000+08:00gosh that mushroom dish started to make me really ...gosh that mushroom dish started to make me really drool.....looks sooo good!<BR/><BR/>i agree with u, we shouldnt take ppls around us for granted. cherish what u have, friendships, ur love ones, but oooooouuuu, i dunno about slicing my hand man.SuLeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11730877244667654872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-61605842250269250452007-04-18T14:35:00.000+08:002007-04-18T14:35:00.000+08:00hahahha....Whew! Thank God i'm not! i'm in fact ve...hahahha....Whew! Thank God i'm not! i'm in fact very 'loveable' one. Ask my friends! Heheh...=PgRaCehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15569705382801485529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-22641006337240336062007-04-18T11:48:00.000+08:002007-04-18T11:48:00.000+08:00hcfoo - yeah, your second para is so true. in a wa...<B>hcfoo</B> - yeah, your second para is so true. in a way, we pamper our boss... and take advantage of us. well, some ppl are willing to sacrifice for better position. to each its own.<BR/><BR/><B>angel</B> - memang sesat.. that's why my word verification was up temporarily.<BR/><BR/><B>economist</B> - hahahaha... must be tactful mah. a man must always guard his tongue. so does a woman.<BR/><BRzewthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-17742454250267826882007-04-18T09:19:00.000+08:002007-04-18T09:19:00.000+08:00Zewt & Kenny,i'm guilty of that too! asking my fre...<B>Zewt</B> & <B>Kenny</B>,<BR/>i'm guilty of that too! asking my frens to pick me up.. =( <BR/><BR/>but of course not to the extend of NSEW la..i very "<I>kuai</I>" and understanding one..LOLzz...!!~gRaCehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15569705382801485529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-44447818614680427232007-04-18T08:42:00.000+08:002007-04-18T08:42:00.000+08:00eh zewt your answer is so POLITICALLY CORRECT till...eh zewt your answer is so POLITICALLY CORRECT till its hard to believe la hahaha...you scared JULES spank you issit if you tell the truth :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-52803076384338493472007-04-18T02:31:00.000+08:002007-04-18T02:31:00.000+08:00WAAA!!! Got birdies flying!! So free! So nice! So ...WAAA!!! Got birdies flying!! So free! So nice! So leng! ;)<BR/><BR/>Pssstt... ada komen sesat eh?rainbow angeleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10769985161601781229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-40053569975111587602007-04-18T00:53:00.000+08:002007-04-18T00:53:00.000+08:00As I'm reading your blog, I'm thinking how little ...As I'm reading your blog, I'm thinking how little time I spent with my parents who are back in hometown. They are getting older each day and here I am so far away from home.<BR/><BR/>Gone are the days when I worked till late at night. The more time I spent time and effort on work, the more my ex boss will expect from me. So it's better to work on my on at my own pace.hcfoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03475528426044188839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-46151967262859852232007-04-17T23:20:00.000+08:002007-04-17T23:20:00.000+08:00baby sa - hahaha... maybe, if i open a restaurant....<B>baby sa</B> - hahaha... maybe, if i open a restaurant... <BR/><BR/><B>Acrelaine</B> - do it... you might get to take your exam on a later date... oh, i am so evil...<BR/><BR/><B>may</B> - yup, we sometimes knowingly walk into the trap willingly. like i said in some of my replies, it is the responsibilities of both parties to pull both parties out of the trap.<BR/><BR/><B>bubbly soda</B> - zewthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-34975240921298794112007-04-17T23:17:00.000+08:002007-04-17T23:17:00.000+08:00anonymous 2 - maybe you should talk to your mom pr...<B>anonymous 2</B> - maybe you should talk to your mom properly and hear her side of the story. but then again, i know it's not easy, i know sometimes, parents are not always right too. oh well...<BR/><BR/><B>erinalaw</B> - hey there, welcome here! my dad... i shall not mention about him, something he did 2 days ago that made me go absolutely bongkers!<BR/><BR/><B>vegemaster</B> - yes, becos zewthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-55440797105990993682007-04-17T22:27:00.000+08:002007-04-17T22:27:00.000+08:00economist - a bit of both,which is good... balance...<B>economist</B> - a bit of both,which is good... balance!<BR/><BR/><B>huei</B> - you're damn right...!! yan sin bei yan hei. but you ah... always kena conned.. sigh...<BR/><BR/><B>cirnelle</B> - indeed, habit is another deadly trap... once we get intoa certain rhythm... we sort of set a precedent and expect things to be done in a particular manner, not thinking about the feeling of others. zewthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-41149816975493920092007-04-17T22:17:00.000+08:002007-04-17T22:17:00.000+08:00Diane - strking balance is a very difficult thing ...<B>Diane</B> - strking balance is a very difficult thing to do. but never hurt to try.<BR/><BR/><B>mistipurple</B> - balance is the holy grail, very difficult to achieve. you're right... becos of love, we give in. <BR/><BR/><B>angel</B> - hahaha... so bad guy always win eh? well, at long as you're trying, then it's good... me ok... thanks.<BR/><BR/><B>goodshithappens</B> - give thanks always.zewthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05825991430180369393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-12707566338003193982007-04-17T21:33:00.000+08:002007-04-17T21:33:00.000+08:00we build the traps...we keep on going into it....h...we build the traps...we keep on going into it....hmmmm...must be some 'nice traps', huh?nyonyapenanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05248894660807496075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-10154766516757195752007-04-17T20:54:00.000+08:002007-04-17T20:54:00.000+08:00Most of the time we will only realise how lucky we...Most of the time we will only realise how lucky we are only when it is too late. However, we are so blinded by what we have and we forget how to appreciate. It is common as we are human. So at we should stop a little and look at how lucky we are. Then try to appreciate the people around us. God Bless You.<BR/><BR/>See! I told you that you'll see me!Melyonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13316913401246404701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-43507916073862845252007-04-17T20:48:00.000+08:002007-04-17T20:48:00.000+08:00we knowingly walk into traps like that sometimes, ...we knowingly walk into traps like that sometimes, don't we? because we can't help it. and when we do want to help ourselves, we feel guilty for letting the other party down, even though we know they should be the grateful ones to be on the receiving end.<BR/><BR/>same goes vice versa.<BR/><BR/>hope life would balance out... eventually.mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03462864451396368720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-45252486983754233402007-04-17T20:25:00.000+08:002007-04-17T20:25:00.000+08:00hmm.. i dont know which side of the trap i fall in...hmm.. i dont know which side of the trap i fall into.. -_- <BR/><BR/>newayz, i dun wanna slice my hands.. exam is coming.. wtfAcrelainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15329431337828392837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-28140010987755642052007-04-17T19:52:00.000+08:002007-04-17T19:52:00.000+08:00wondering if I have a chance to try what you'd coo...wondering if I have a chance to try what you'd cook???hehe:)Wickedsahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18080338351951239791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-55822447865646247642007-04-17T16:41:00.000+08:002007-04-17T16:41:00.000+08:00Bro, I know exactly what you mean by being Mr. Nic...Bro, I know exactly what you mean by being Mr. Nice Guy. I had a friend who kept calling me and a couple of other friends, inc. another girl, to fetch her NSEW (north, south, east, west).<BR/><BR/>Then one fine day, she realised we stopped answering her "taxi" calls, and then she finally bought a car of her own... See? Never take one's friends for granted. :DKenny Mahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10858453655208305063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-16953670155765996822007-04-17T15:34:00.000+08:002007-04-17T15:34:00.000+08:00The family example u use cannot be applied to work...The family example u use cannot be applied to work. Althought boss always say we r a family during stuff meeting. It is not applicable b'cos employee is expendable!!!I pay u RM10 u have to work back RM20. If u don't wan I will find other 'suc ker' who will.Friendship is a bit applicable but we must remember we r not totally dependable on friend. Got friend, good! No friend also can do, afterall IHorny Ang Mohhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03244582349100336222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-71268021480674943132007-04-17T14:43:00.000+08:002007-04-17T14:43:00.000+08:00Ola...I like the part where you whined about ur wo...Ola...<BR/>I like the part where you whined about ur work and how you gotta stay back, do extra works la yada yada ,, lolz.. reminds me of my nephew who literally shrinks away every time I mention the phrase "homework time"... you soound like a small boy la.. kinda cute though.. and I agree with ur compromise part.. ur damn right... acceptance is the right word and my grandpa use 2 say never MissSHopaHolichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07304272574327412046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1818772382830913568.post-4241547787846003912007-04-17T13:39:00.000+08:002007-04-17T13:39:00.000+08:00Nice people, and my bias tells me they are mostly ...Nice people, and my bias tells me they are mostly mothers, almost always fall into the trap of being taken advantaged of or taken for granted.<BR/>I myself had to learn to be assertive with female friends, colleagues and family members; feel alright about saying NO, and SET LIMITS.BaitiBadarudinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06255773362994807469noreply@blogger.com